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David called us thinking the ceiling on his Southwest Florida dream home was a $325,000 resale condo.

Forty-one days later, he walked away from the closing table with the keys to a brand-new, three-bedroom, two-bath home with a three-car garage. He paid $305,000. The same model from the same builder lists at $325,547 today. He has roughly $20,000 in instant equity. The builder paid 100 percent of his buyer's-agent commission ($11,390 in his case) and credited him $20,248.73 toward closing costs and lender fees. He walked out of closing with $1,141.22 back in his pocket.

David is a 100 percent disabled veteran. He used a VA loan.

He did not know what he did not know.

That phrase, "you don't know what you don't know," is the entire reason we wrote this guide. The home buying process in Florida is not complicated, but it is full of choices most buyers do not know they have. The biggest gap between buyers who land in homes they love and buyers who land in homes they tolerate is almost never money. It is access to expertise that broadens the options.

Here are the 14 steps from "I think I want to buy" to "I have keys," in the order they actually happen. We have put the most important one first.

AT A GLANCE: THE 14 STEPS

1. The Buyer's Strategy Session (start here)
2. Get Pre-Approved With the Right Lender
3. Lock in Your Real Budget (Including SWFL Carrying Costs)
4. Sign Your Buyer Representation Agreement
5. Define Your Search Criteria (and Be Open to Reframing)
6. Tour Properties
7. Make the Offer (With the Right Rider)
8. Negotiate Price and Terms
9. Go Under Contract
10. Order Inspections (Home, 4-Point, Wind Mitigation)
11. Negotiate Inspection Items
12. Finalize Insurance and Clear Underwriting
13. Final Walkthrough
14. Closing Day (and the Ecosystem Around It)

Step 1: The Buyer's Strategy Session (Where It All Starts)

Most "how to buy a home" articles open with "get pre-approved." We disagree.

The single most important step in the whole process is sitting down with an agent who knows the local market, before you talk to a lender, before you scroll Zillow, before you commit to a price range in your own head. We call this conversation the Buyer's Strategy Session, and we offer it free of charge to anyone considering a Southwest Florida purchase.

Three things get covered:

Affordability calibration. Most buyers either underestimate or overestimate what they can afford. Underestimating is no problem. You find the home you can actually have and you are pleasantly surprised. Overestimating is a trap. Once you have seen homes at a price point you cannot actually afford, you stop being satisfied with the homes you can. We talk through the actual math (income, debts, target monthly payment, SWFL carrying costs) so that the houses we tour are the houses you can buy.

Options you may not know exist. New construction. Off-market homes that are not advertised on Zillow. Builder inventory that comes with concessions a resale cannot match. Builders price each model based on how many of that model they are selling across multiple buyers. An agent who brings a builder dozens of buyers a year is part of a different conversation than a single consumer walking in cold off the street.

Network introductions. Lender. Insurance agents. Inspectors. Property managers (for second-home or investment buyers). The right agent does not just open doors. The right agent introduces you to the people who close them properly.

David's whole story turned at the Buyer's Strategy Session. He came in looking at small resale condos because he assumed that was his ceiling. Kim asked one question: "What if we looked at new construction?" An hour with a spreadsheet later, the dream he had been told was out of reach was on its way to becoming a deed in his name.

If you take nothing else from this guide, take this: do not skip Step 1.

Step 2: Get Pre-Approved (With the Right Lender)

Pre-qualification is a quick conversation with a loose number. Pre-approval is a full underwriting review with a letter that says a lender is willing to actually lend you that money. Sellers want to see pre-approval.

We work with Cary Meyers at Guild Mortgage in Fort Myers because his pre-approvals close. There are lenders in the SWFL market with reputations for clean pre-approvals followed by messy closings. There are lenders who specialize in one loan type (Conventional, FHA, VA, Investor) and are weak in others. The lender you pick is one of the three or four decisions on this list that can save or cost you tens of thousands of dollars.

If you are using a VA loan, USDA loan, FHA loan, Doctor loan, Investor loan, Jumbo loan, or any specialty product, your lender choice matters even more. The wrong lender can lose your file the day before closing. The right lender knows exactly what their underwriter is going to ask for before they ask.

Step 3: Lock in Your Real Budget (Including SWFL Carrying Costs)

In Southwest Florida in 2026, a $400,000 home is not a $400,000 obligation. The real monthly cost includes:

• Principal and interest on the loan

• Annual property taxes

• Homeowner's insurance

• Flood insurance if you are in a flood zone

• HOA fees in many communities

• The realistic cost of maintaining a home in a hurricane-prone climate

Run those numbers, all of them, before you write an offer. We build a full carrying-cost worksheet with every buyer so the monthly number on the spreadsheet matches the monthly number that will actually leave your bank account.

Step 4: Sign Your Buyer Representation Agreement

A buyer representation agreement is a written contract between you and your agent. As of 2024, almost every Florida buyer transaction begins with one. It defines what your agent does for you, what you do for them, and how the agent gets paid.

It is not just paperwork. Here is what it bought David. When you buy new construction with your own buyer's agent in tow, the builder pays 100 percent of your agent's commission. In David's case, that was $11,390 in compensation that came out of the builder's pocket, not his. Without representation, David would have walked into the model home alone, signed the builder's contract, and lost not just his agent's expertise but also the negotiating leverage an experienced new-construction agent brings to the table. We estimate he would have left fifty thousand dollars on the table in builder concessions and equity.

Sellers' agents represent sellers. Listing agents represent the listing. You need someone who represents you.

Step 5: Define Your Search Criteria (and Be Open to Reframing)

Make a list. Must-haves. Nice-to-haves. Deal-breakers.

Then bring it to your agent and let them ask you the questions you did not ask yourself.

David walked in asking for a two-car garage. Kim recognized that the floorplan he loved at Crane Landing came with a three-car at the same price. He walked away with more than he asked for.

David walked in opposed to HOAs. Kim recognized that the right HOA, at the right price, did the lawn work his health made hard. The $198-a-month Crane Landing HOA covers lawn care, common-area maintenance, gate access, and the sports courts. The HOA David had been bracing against was the very thing that made the home livable for him long-term.

A great agent listens past the request to the real life beneath it.

Step 6: Tour Properties

Now you can scroll Zillow. Now we can pull listings. Now you can walk through homes.

A few SWFL-specific things we look at on every tour:

• Roof age and material. New roofs save real money in insurance premiums. Roofs over 12 years old, especially shingle, are a yellow flag.

• Windows. Impact glass is a significant insurance discount and a hurricane-prep upgrade.

• FEMA flood zone. Two homes on the same street can be in different flood zones, which means thousands of dollars per year in different flood premiums.

• HOA reserves and special assessment history. For condos and HOA communities, especially post-Ian, this matters enormously.

• Permit history. Open permits are problems. We check before you fall in love.

You enjoy the houses. We notice the details that will matter at closing.

Step 7: Make the Offer (With the Right Rider)

When you decide on a home, the offer paperwork includes one piece most buyers, and frankly many agents, do not use correctly: the Florida Realtors and Florida Bar Comprehensive Rider, Section H, Homeowner's and Flood Insurance (form CR-7).

Here is what Section H does:

• Section H(a) lets you cap the first-year homeowner's insurance premium at either a stated dollar amount or a stated percentage of the purchase price. If you cannot obtain coverage at or below that cap from a standard carrier or Citizens by the deadline you specify, you terminate the contract and your deposit is refunded.

• Section H(b) does the same thing for flood insurance through the National Flood Insurance Program or a private flood carrier.

We walked through the full playbook in our June 1 hurricane insurance pillar post, and we use this rider on every SWFL buyer transaction. It is the cleanest way to make an offer in 2026 without taking on hidden insurance risk.

Step 8: Negotiate Price and Terms

Price is one variable. The full negotiation is a system: price, closing date, who pays what at closing, inspection contingency, financing contingency, appraisal contingency, possession date.

A skilled buyer's agent does not just push the price down. They build a full offer that maximizes your odds of getting the home and minimizes your risk if something goes wrong.

A quick local note: in Lee County, title is typically paid by the seller. In Collier County, title is typically paid by the buyer. Know which county you are in.

Step 9: Go Under Contract

Once the offer is accepted, you deposit your earnest money to the title company's escrow account, you sign the executed contract, and the inspection clock starts. "I am buying a home" becomes "I am buying this specific home."

Step 10: Order Inspections (Home, 4-Point, Wind Mitigation)

During the inspection period, we order three reports as standard:

• Home inspection. Full property condition report.

• 4-Point inspection. Required by most insurance carriers for older homes. Roof, electrical, plumbing, HVAC.

• Wind Mitigation report. Documents the home's hurricane-resistance features. This single report can save hundreds to thousands per year on insurance.

For condos on Sanibel, Captiva, and Fort Myers Beach (and any other coastal building), we add a longer list including milestone inspection reports, structural integrity reports, HOA reserve documentation, hurricane-accounting reports, and open-permit research. Post-Ian, these reports separate sound investments from problems.

Step 11: Negotiate Inspection Items

After the reports come back, you have three choices:

• Ask for repairs done by the seller before closing

• Ask for a credit (a price reduction or seller concession at closing)

• Walk away and keep your earnest money, if the inspection contingency allows

Major systems (roof, HVAC, electrical) are the usual focus. We help you triage what to push on and what to let go.

Step 12: Finalize Insurance and Clear Underwriting

This is where the Wind Mitigation report pays off. With it in hand, your insurance agent runs a real quote, not a preliminary one. Almost always, the real quote comes in lower than the pre-offer ballpark, especially on homes with newer roofs and good wind mitigation features.

Meanwhile, your lender finishes underwriting. They have ordered the appraisal, reviewed your income, verified your assets, and checked everything they need to check. The goal of this step is clear to close, the lender's confirmation that nothing else is needed before settlement.

Step 13: Final Walkthrough

The day before closing (sometimes the morning of), you and your agent walk through the home one last time. Major systems still work. Agreed-upon repairs are done. The home is in roughly the state you expected.

This is also when you take photos for your records.

Step 14: Closing Day (and the Ecosystem Around It)

You sit at a table. You sign a stack of paperwork. The lender funds the loan. The title company records the deed. You get the keys.

The good closing is the boring closing. The work of a good agent is making the day feel anticlimactic.

For David, closing day was May 26, 2026, 41 days from his first phone call. He walked out with the keys, with $1,141.22 in his pocket from the "due to borrower" line on his settlement statement, and with around $20,000 in instant equity in a brand-new home.

A few days after closing, David called Kim to let her know his friend was looking for a home in the same community and asked if we could help. The referral was his testimonial. In our business, the highest form of trust a happy client can give us is sending us their friend.

That is the part most "how to buy a home" articles miss. The closing is a beginning, not an end. The ecosystem (the lender, the insurance agent, the property manager if it is a second home, the contractor when the AC needs service in year three) is what makes the home the right home for the long run.

A great agent does not just hand you keys. She hands you an ecosystem.

Ready to Start With Step 1?

If you have a Southwest Florida home in the back of your mind, in Cape Coral, Fort Myers, Fort Myers Beach, Sanibel, Captiva, Naples, Estero, Bonita Springs, Lehigh Acres, Alva, or any of the surrounding communities, the right next move is a free Buyer's Strategy Session.

We will sit down with you, talk through what you actually want, what you can actually afford, and what options you might not realize you have. The conversation is free. The clarity it provides may move the dream from "someday" to "this year."

We work with first-time buyers, second-home buyers, investors, and veterans. We come from a military family. Two of our sons serve in the United States Navy. If you have served our country, please reach out. We know the VA loan inside and out, and we are honored to work with you.

Call or text us at (239) 420-9027 or email martin@teamhawley.com.

The Hawley Team at Keller Williams Fort Myers serves Cape Coral, Fort Myers, Fort Myers Beach, Sanibel, Captiva, Naples, Estero, Bonita Springs, Lehigh Acres, North Fort Myers, Alva, and the surrounding Southwest Florida communities.

Disclosures

This article is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, tax, or insurance advice. Real estate transactions are regulated at the state level and individual circumstances vary. Consult licensed professionals (attorney, lender, insurance agent, accountant) for advice specific to your situation.

David's transaction details are shared with his permission. First name only is used. Specific dollar amounts (purchase price, instant equity, builder credit, closing costs, agent commission, cash due to borrower) are drawn from his actual settlement statement and are accurate as of his May 26, 2026 closing. Builder concessions, lender incentives, market conditions, and individual loan terms vary widely. Readers should not interpret these figures as guarantees of similar outcomes in their own transactions.

The Hawley Team is a real estate brokerage. We are not lenders, insurance agencies, attorneys, or financial advisors. For specific guidance in those areas, please consult licensed professionals. Equal Housing Opportunity.